WHY DOES SHE STAY
Domestic violence is one of the miseries that millions of women and even a few men fall into every year.
Domestic violence happens to everyone,all races ,all religions and it's not even a women's issue as some people think although 85% of the abusers are men.see also;domestic violence data.
It happens in families, intimate and long-term relationships.
Some of the abusers usually have had abad childhood for example if someone was savagely and repeatedly abused by their step parent or even their biological parent.
Some of the warning signs of an abuser are, creating an illusion that you're the dominate partner in a relationship.They first idolize you in the beginning,they praise you and love everything about you.
The second step is isolating the victim so that she's far away from family members and friends.He might do this by suggesting you move to a new city far from them by bringing up excuses of why you should move in order to convince you.
The abuser then introduces the threat to victim in order to see her reaction then they proceed to physically abusing the victim.
Most of the women don't realize that they are being abused and that's why they stay.They just see themselves as very strong women just in love with troubled men and think that it's kinda normal.
The other reason she stays maybe , being afraid to move away from the abuser because she might of being killed and stalked by the abuser.
Over 70% of the murders of domestic violence happens after the victim decides to end the relationship.
Victims are advised to break the silence and tell those around them what they go through.
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