EARNING SELF-RESPECT 


Most of us struggle  to put up healthy boundaries with people.We all  admit that we do have people in our lives who treat us so  poorly, they talk down to us,they boss us around and sometimes they are really rude and aggressive and we really struggle to find away to tell them to stop.
Times are gone when we were really young   and we had no option than to let people treat us in  undesirable way.We're now grownups  and  have the ability to do whatever it takes to just get treated rightly.

Here are some of  the things you should do to  set boundaries and ensure you get treated  in the right manner.

First you should know that you have the right to walk away from someone who treats you badly. For example if your boyfriend is always or sometimes speaks to you rudely learn to just walk away the moment he is doing it.Through this you will earn self respect and be  able to teach people how they should treat you.

Secondly, You have the right to say no. Saying no doesn't make you a jerk, it doesn't make you selfish, it doesn't make you  look rude and horrible person. It means we recognize what's right for us and we have the right  to say no.
.Lastly recognize any toxic relationship that you have with any of  your friends and distance yourself from such people. It doesn't matter whether they   are your relatives or not because sometimes people who are close to us like our parents maybe toxic.Just make sure you're not around them and  avoid taking  any part in their discussions
Setting this boundaries can be really hard because we are afraid our  friends Will view us as selfish people but think to yourself, ,is it important for people to like you or is it important for you to like you.
Don't  let anyone treat you like shit.